Monday, August 11, 2014


FAMILY:  you want to know what's going on in my life.... ring me.  Show you care.
Don't use my blog to see what's going on.
That is not being part of the family, that is NOTHING.

I'm not sharing my life with people who don't give a fuck. 

I'm not sharing my life with people who only want to use me.

I'm not sharing my life with people who stab me in the back, yet smile to my face.

FRIENDS:  I'm sorry but you are the ones that will miss out for now.

I should be at the Hospice Shop about now.  Hmmmm... why am I stuck at home?

In case any of my family are not able to read this on Facebook:
Tired of being used. Tired of having knives stabbed in my back. Tired of being taken for granted. Nothing I do is good enough for some people, and they are too quick to forget what I have done for them over the years. Over the lot of you fucking users/takers/so called LOVING kids. LOVING? What the Fuck? All I have ever done is the best I can, supported you all the best I could, helped you move, helped you with your kids, given you all that I could. FOR WHAT?

Can't even see half my grandkids. What's the point anymore? Why should I care about YOU or your kids when you obviously don't care about ME.

It's time to take stock of who does care and shows it, and invest all my love and care into them. At least it's not a wasted effort, at least they do care and show me every day. And they don't go crying a load of fucking bullshit to their friends and make people hate me... PEOPLE who do not know the full story and never will....


I've got ONE LIFE, and I've wasted far too much of it worrying about a bunch of ungrateful bastards.

nite nite.... over and out. Off to live my life how I WANT TO.

and yes, I will be back blogging soon... just so I can show the fuckers what they are missing.

As you can no doubt tell ... I'm angry.  I'm angrier than I have been in a very long time.

This is not down to ONLY one of my kids either.

She was just the ignition button.

For someone who was NOT BLOGGING today... I did a pretty good job of it.
nite nite

ANONS WHO CAN'T SPELL FOR SHIT, GET A BLOODY DICTIONARY... and no I don't have to publish your crap comments.  It's my blog and I can do what I want to.


  1. Just look after yourself, you need time out, we will be here for you.

  2. I hope things get sorted for you. Life is way too short and you only get one shot at it. People who care will be there for you. Others may be lost on the way. You ultimately have to look out for number one... don't let the stress kill you. Where would they be then? (Sorry if it sounds morbid but why should you be the one stuck with the shit sandwich? )

  3. Lacy doesn't deserve you both for parents. She has no respect for you. I would have thought shed miss Keera too. Take care of you Chris. Having shit from my girls too cause No 1 father is supposedly dying. Yeah right! Hasn't seen them for 16 years ?? Suddenly he's a pretty average father . Okay that they're seeing him but I was a bad mother now? Friends are like buttons. They hold you together. Luv lotz.

  4. Take care and all the best for the future. I hope everything works out ok!

  5. Big hugs. Will text or PM to check how you are.

  6. I'm sorry that life is handing you a s--t sandwich right now. Take those that love you and revel in their love. Hope to read you again when life eases up a bit. Hugs...

  7. Take care of yourself knowing that friends care. Big hugs. xx

  8. Although I rarely comment I just want you to know that I loved reading your blog every morning to see what you were up to. You have done so much for your children and you don't deserve to be treated like this . Take care

  9. Take care Chris xx

  10. Anonymous12:05 PM

    so sorry to hear things are so shit right now Chris. Hang in there. biggest (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

  11. Hope you ok? Take care - luv Anne

  12. I have been reading your blog since Cocoa was pregnant with her very first litter. I have never met you - but I have bought your creations as presents and they have brought great joy! My MIL is a silent reader of your blog in North Dakota. We will both be wishing for the best for you and the family. Thinking of you from afar! We will miss you greatly if you really do stop blogging.

  13. Lorraine H1:08 PM

    Oh Chris this is not what you should be going through.Your health & wellbeing is utmost.Please look after yourself(& Stew)We are here for you.Love to you & Stew.
    Southgirl xo

  14. Oh so she hasn't surfaced HEY you how about paying back money to the government FOR not caring for your own child. Chris you are way more patient than you give yourself credit for. When she needs time out or money or food SHE will no doubt have to grovel and eat humble pie. Though narcissists hardly care' they feel the whole wide world owes them.

  15. Anonymous6:11 PM

    Fuck you Lacey!! Get in touch with your mother and father and stop fooling around. They are worried sick about you. Ungrateful b@#%h! Your parents do so much for you and all they want is for you to be happy and tell them where you are. In case you are not aware you have a child to look after or are you going to dump K onto them as well? Think about your older kids, they have feelings too! Stop acting like an child and take responsibility for you actions!
    To Chris: I am so sorry you feel used, unloved and not cared for. Please know that you have friends, you have not met, but stand with you. We care for you. If Lacey continues to use you in this way, then it's time to turn the tables. I am sorry to say this but she is a disgrace! Please stand tall for Lacey's older kids and for your husband.
    Huge hugs from wet and windy UK, Felicity Tarry

  16. Anonymous6:11 PM

    Live and enjoy your life Chris, after all, success is the best revenge! Just look after those in your household and forget the rest! The others are big enough to take care of themselves!

  17. Put a disclaimer in Herald and T Tauranga paper "I Chris Harvey will not be held reasonable for any debts incurred by Lacy Harvey" etc etc

  18. Anonymous9:06 PM

    Dear Chris, I feel so hurt for you after reading today's post. Some people are so selfish and insensitive - I know - i have a family member who has treated me like this also. Surround yourself with those that love and appreciate you. You are a wonderful person who should be treated with respect and love.. Take care, Chrissy in oz

  19. Take care. Look after yourself xxx

  20. Please look after yourself mum as the ones thay do love and care for you will show it in our own special way. ...and to my one and only dad....I love you will all my heart. Gor sll the moving me back a forth. ...and little pep talks....I love live you both very much. ....

  21. Anonymous12:26 AM

    Chris - I feel your pain. DH and I are in the same boar looking after our GD. This has caused jealousy with one of my sons and his wife. To be told how you can spend your money and time is over the top. I can only tell you what i was told, look after yourself - if you are unhappy, everyone in your home is unhappy and they have not done anything to deserve this. Know that you have done your best and that is all you can do. If they have a problem with you - then it is their problem, Remember you are supported by heaps of online friends - take care of yourself _ trish

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