PHYSIO THEN MORNING TEA

 

First up for the day, Stew is off to another physio session.  It will be interesting to see if she thinks he's making progress, or not.  I think it's  a NOT.

But, I'm no professional.

While he's out, I will get the washing either hung out, or thrown in the dryer.  It's looking pretty blah outside, so probably the dryer.

Once Stew is home, we are going to attend the Thursday Coffee & Chat morning tea.  Stew has never attended one before, so it will be nice for him to meet a few more people here.

I think he expects to be sitting amongst a bunch of befuddled oldies!  😂😅  He might be surprised at the range of ages, as most who attend the morning teas are not that much older than us.  YES, some are quite a bit older, but they DO still have their marbles.  🔵🔴🌕

After morning tea, we don't really have any other plans.  Maybe it will be the time to sort out the other 'future proofing' plans we want to make.  Funeral Trusts etc.

ONWARD...

12.10 pm.  The physio said Stew's knee is doing fine, pain is to be expected for a while longer yet.  He's got a few new exercises to add to his list.

We attended Morning Tea, and I think Stew enjoyed it.  There was a good number of ladies there today, and we engaged in conversations with most of them.

I've now got lunch in the oven, we are having home made tacos.  I have several containers of spaghetti  bolognaise  mince in the freezer, so pulled one out, added Taco Seasoning and BOOM.  Nacho mince.

SMALL ROAD TRIP

Leaning towards what we did yesterday, today we are travelling down to Tokoroa to tend to my families graves.

Both headstones/bases need to be cleaned, and have fresh stuff put around.  I'm hoping to pick up some nice pots/plants to sit on the bases.  

My Dad's headstone is to be removed soon, to have my Mum's and Sister's details added.  This will then be 'unveiled' in August.

I fully expect this job to take the majority of the day.  I am just wanting it done asap.  I feel the weight of having to keep the graves tidy, as there really is no one else lining up to do it. 

THAT is why when we 'go', I don't want anyone having to tend our graves.  In 100 years, no one will even remember us so yeah, traditional graves are not for us.

Kinda a weird subject to be yakking about eh?  But I think it's something everyone (adults at least), should give some thought to.  That and your Will, Executors, Power of Attorneys, memorandum of wishes, and so on.  You can't really control what happens after you die, but you can certainly do a few things, like what we did yesterday.

So there ya go.  We will be heading off mid morning, once it's warmed up a bit.

ONWARD...

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ABOVE: On the road at 10 am, heading into foggy South Waikato. Ikkk. 

1.30 pm.  We are home again.  It didn't take us too long to get the graves nice and tidy again.  I had already taken some of the stuff away last Friday, on my way home from Palmerston North.  Dead flowers, and things that needed cleaning, like my painted rocks.

ABOVE: Tokoroa was freezing, and it drizzled on and off.  Many, many years ago, the only statue on the main street was the Bushman, holding his chainsaw.  Now there's quite a few more.  I liked it better with just the bushman.

ABOVE:  My Dad's headstone will be having additional wording added soon.

As you can see (Vickie), his headstone/base badly needed cleaning, moss removed etc.

Sadly, I seem to be the only family member who does it.  In saying that, we haven't done it in at least a couple of years, and it showed.

ABOVE:  My two brother's headstone/base got cleaned as well of course.  

I thought about painting both the bases, but I am sure the paint would chip away over time, and that would look ikkk.  So I've shelved that idea.

ABOVE:  The position of both headstones, opposite each other.   Once my sister's ashes are interred with my Dad, and 'bits and bobs' of my Mum, my entire immediate family will be together.

AND NO, I will not be joining them there.  Stew and I want to be laid to rest in Hamilton, where we have spent the majority of our married life.

It felt so good to have that job done, it's been hanging over my head for a while now.

9.15 pm, and we have had a very lazy afternoon/evening again!  It's rather nice being lazy.

Time to sign off for the day, catch ya tomorrow.

WORKING ON IT

 

We shall be heading out to Chartwell Square this morning, as Stew has an appointment at Spec Savers.  Just a bi-annual check up.

While there, I presume we will have a wander around the shops... as ya do.

There's another thing on our agenda, and hopefully we can tee that up today as well.

It's something a bit 'out there', so until it's sorted out, I might just keep it to myself.

LOL, I told Mike and Joyce if they could guess what 'it' was I'd give them $1,000.  They couldn't guess.  😂😅

My new sewing machine is running a bit ragged, so I'm going to get some new needles, to see if that helps.  If not, I have a sinking feeling Mc 2ie is going to Auckland for a 'check up'.  Let's not go there right now, I'm keeping my fingers crossed it's just a temporary glitch.

ONWARD...

12.40 pm.  We have had a successful morning.  First up, Stew does not need new glasses.

He bought a book on how to handle stressful situations, recommended by our friend yesterday.  It will probably take him 2 years to read it!

We then went here:

ABOVE: The Hamilton Cemetery.  

After having to deal with changing my Dad's headstone to include my Mum and sister lately, and worrying about how the plot/headstone will look in years to come, when I can no longer look after it, prompted our visit out to the cemetery today.

We have chosen our final resting place, and paid for it.  It's one less thing out kids have to deal with when we die, and we know NO ONE will have to 'tend' to our headstone.

ABOVE: We have chosen to be cremated, and buried together in a beautiful garden setting. We even got to choose a special plot number, one that means something to us.  

I am very happy this is done.  Now the next thing we are going to get done this week is to set up Pre Paid Funeral Trusts for each of us.  Yet another thing our kids don't have to worry about.

We can do that online, as Stew (obviously) knows what to do.  LOL.  He's only worked in that industry for 28 years.

After all that, we had lunch at Taco Bell in Hamilton East.  It was a disappointing experience, as they got our order wrong in every way possible.  I doubt we will go there again.

Home now, and soon I will head into Crabby Quarters and suss out my machine, give the bobbin race a clean etc.  Let's see if that helps?

If not, I'll be taking him down to the shop for 'fixing'.
3.42 pm, and Mc 2ie has gone off to be repaired.  Sounds like I did the damage when I broke a needle last week.  😖😕😒 Dammit.

Thank goodness I now have Mc Dreamy as my back up machine!

ABOVE:  I parallel parked my car!!!  OK, OK... badly.  One wheel is on top of the curbing, and one is on an angle... but it's in the gap and that's all I cared about.  lol  I can't usually do that sort of parking at all, but today I decided to give it a go.

I arrived home in time to see Bex, Archer and Lily.  They'd popped in to pick up the airbed I borrowed from them.  It was nice to see them.

Rhonda, that's amazing.  I really didn't think anyone would have any idea what we were doing.  

It's now 7.20 pm, and we are going to enjoy a quiet evening.  We have another thing on tomorrow... looking forward to a little road trip.

Catch ya tomorrow.

BIT OF THIS, BIT OF THAT

We have a friend arriving to visit us sometime today, but we don't know exactly when yet.  We anticipate she'll be here for either morning tea or lunch.

So, it's a hang around till she arrives sorta day.

Stew is going to pop into town first thing, to drop his work shoes off for redoing the rubber on the soles.

While he does that, I am going to make a start on going through ALL OUR RUNNERS, to re-arrange what goes in what bag.  We are taking far too many to market, and I want to pare it down to what actually fits on the walls and two racks.  Then I want a bag of 'spares', but only a few, not 3 dozen!  It's just not necessary to take that many.

I anticipate that job taking me an hour or two, so I'll be gainfully 'employed' for the morning.

And that is all I have to yabber on about for now.

Catch ya later.

ONWARD...

2.40 pm!  Yep, clearly I've been a bit busy today.

It took me over two and a half hours to sort through all our runners, and get them in the appropriate bags.  I have a separate bag for the gazebo Walls, Rack 1 and Rack 2.  It's just me being super organised of course.  

Once that was done, I wandered down to our Craft Room to let them know I'd not be in today.

I got back home just as our visitor was arriving, perfect timing.  We took Sharon to lunch at The Lookout and she was super impressed.

Sharon used to work with Stew in Rotorua, quite a few years ago now.  It was lovely to catch up with her.

After she left, we went to the supermarket for diet coke.  Our Pak n Save hasn't had any diet coke for a few weeks now.

Now we are home again, and it's time to take a break.  It's been go go all day so far.  I want to sit and relax for a bit. 

6.51 pm.  Ashamed to say I've been 'relaxing' all afternoon!  Just didn't feel like doing a bloody thing.  I think Stew felt the same.

So, a quiet evening stretches ahead, catch ya tomorrow.

SHOOT ME NOW

 

5.39 am.  

And it is FREEZING.  And I feel so groggy, getting up this early really doesn't suit me at all.

Luckily we don't do this too often.  I can't imagine people who do this EVERY SINGLE WEEKEND!

F that.

So anyway, we choose to do this so I really shouldn't bitch about it.

We are going to have a good day weather wise, once the fog clears.  No rain like last time we were at the Cambridge Market.

And today we will have Bex with her stall right next to us all going well.

So, let's get on with it.  I'll be back once we are all set up.

ONWARD...

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ABOVE: We are literally CRAWLING on the expressway because of incredibly thick FOG. It's scary. I hope Bex is OK.

Well... Bex was OK, she got to market before us even. We are now all set up, the fog has lifted and the sun is trying to fight through the overcast sky. 

ABOVE: And there we all are. Waiting for the shoppers.  If they have any sense, they are still in bed!

8.05 am, and a bloke walked by. And he glanced in and said "WOW". I love it when that happens. He stopped and we chatted for a moment.  Nice eh.
It is now 11.30 and we have NOT made a sale yet!!!!   It is cold and miserable.  The fog keeps coming down, making it even worse.  I'm thinking its going to be a NSD day = a NO SALE DAY. At least Bex has had some sales.

11.43 am, and NOW ITS DRIZZLING.  GRRRRR.

1.55 pm:  The day did not get any better, I actually started packing up half an hour BEFORE the end of market!  I don't think I've ever done that before.

It was just so cold and horrible, and a NSD to boot.  That's only the second time ever we've not sold a thing.  Bex did better, lucky girl.

The weather in Cambridge was completely overcast, and the fog kept coming down repeatedly.  By the time we arrived back in Hamilton it was sunny, but is it now clouding over as well. 

As you can imagine, I am now in me lounge chair with the heated throw on, and the heat pump on as well.  The house is very cold too.

I'm looking forward to dinner, not because I'm hungry, but because I'm just tired and want the comfort of eating something nice and HOT.

Right, it's now 8 pm.  We've had dinner, and are now just chillin' out.  I fully expect to be in bed in the next hour!  We are both knackered.

Catch ya tomorrow.

NINE DAYS OFF

 

Starting today, Stew has no work for a whole nine days.

He's go so many holidays owing, he has to take some days off.  So, he's got all of next week off.

We do have a couple of things planned for next week, things that we want to get squared away for the future, but more on that... next week I suppose.  Gotta keep something up me sleeve to yabber about next week right?  😂😏

Back to today.... not too sure really.

Saturday's usually mean going out and about, having a nice lunch somewhere and all that.

I think we will return that piece of Britto ... and NO, I won't be keeping it.  It's damned expensive, so having two the same would be a bit dumb.  We can choose a replacement piece together, which will be nice.  Hopefully the shop actually has a piece we don't already have! 

Seriously, it's getting harder and harder to find new pieces we don't have.

Though in saying that, there are quite a few pieces that simply DO NOT appeal.  Or are HUGE and mega expensive, and I simply refuse to buy them.

We have the Cambridge Trash 'n' Treasure market on tomorrow, so at some point later on we will pack the car, and make sure we have everything we need.  It is almost second nature now of course, but I still get a bit stressed about it, making sure we don't forget anything.

Right, time to get up and start the day, catch ya later.

ONWARD...

ABOVE:  11 am saw us in town, exchanging one Britto piece... for two.  Whoops. FYI, they are just little pieces, fit in the palm of ya hand little. 

Then we wandered down to Iguana restaurant for lunch.

ABOVE:  This place hasn't changed that much in 40 years.  The food took a while to arrive, and was very average.  Not photo worthy.

ABOVE: Stew ordered some Koala cloths, which arrived today.  Time will tell if they are any good.  Interesting he bought cleaning cloths... I think he wants to try one on the shower glass.

We have very hard water here, so there's always a build up of hard water spots all over the glass.  

We tried Glassguard, which was quite expensive, to no avail.

Fingers crossed Koala cloths do the trick, cos they were not cheap either.

Has anyone else tried Koala cloths?  

7.15 pm.  When I  have more energy I'll give those Koala Cloths a go on various surfaces.  Right now though, I'm contemplating an early night, as we have to get up bloody stupid o'clock tomorrow.

AND it's going to be FREEZING.

NOT looking forward to that at all.

Catch ya tomorrow, where I will probably be a bit grumpy.

HOW SWEET IS MY DARLING?

 

When Stew arrived home from work last night, he handed me this:

ABOVE: He said it was a 'welcome home gift', and it was appropriate considering my week.

I opened it, saw the picture on the box and closed it again!

It's a piece of BRITTO, a little dog in a dish.  He thought seeing as I had spent a lot of time with little dogs I would like it.  Stew is clearly not up to speed with all our Britto, and what we have.  We already had it!

But never mind, we shall return it next week and get a different one.  

It's the thought that counts of course!  Thank You Darling.  I missed you too.

AND I did bring you a gift as well ... a bag of black jelly beans.   😂😅😆  Not quite as 'special' as Britto... but at least I did think of you right? 

ABOVE: Lily LOVED her huge Stitch toy!  It is bigger than her.  So cute.

The boys got spoilt as well...  $'s for them though, so they can buy what they want.

ABOVE: Bex has been making all sorts of things for her first market in over two and a half years.  Lily is modelling an ear warmer, she looks adorable in it.  

We are both doing the Cambridge Trash 'n' Treasure Market this coming Sunday.  She can set up beside us, that way she has us to help her if necessary.

Now, back to the day ahead. I've got a load of washing to hang out.  A little bit of housework, not much.  Then I can get into Crabby Quarters and put away my latest haul of fabrics.  That will be fun. 

I might even get to finish one of the last 5 runners sitting on my work table?

ONWARD...

12 noon.

Housework - DONE

Small grocery shop - DONE

Washing - whoops, still waiting.

And I'm not going into Crabby Quarters until me jobs are all done, so maybe later on.

Right now, I've just had my lunch, a sausage and some noodles flavoured with sweet 'n' sour sauce.  Very nice on a cold, dreary winters day.

I just spoke with Chris and Sandra as well, and Chris is doing very well.  She sounded really chipper and happy, and she's got Sandra with her, making sure she's OK.  Such a relief all went well.

Now, just fingers crossed for good lab results.

2.55 pm, and I've finally got all the jobs done.

Now finally, I can relax.  If I get the energy a bit later, I'll go into Crabby Quarters to sort out the new fabric.

OR, I'll leave it as a special treat for tomorrow.  Yeah, that's what I'll do.  

I think right now I'll listen to a YouTube doco, while doing a jig saw.

8.34 pm, and we have had a quiet evening so far.

Stew is happily watching rugby, bless his heart.

I've watched three episodes of Coronation Street, so am all caught up now.

Time to sign off for the day, catch ya tomorrow.

HEADING HOME TODAY

 

You should have figured by now that I am heading home today.

Chris is having her procedure tomorrow in the Day Clinic, and Sandra will be staying with her.  So, I feel comfortable going home, knowing she's in safe hands.  The dogs will have their 'Mum' home by the end of the day, so they are fine as well.

I have really, really enjoyed these past few days with my girlfriends, it's been a long time since I did just that.

And of course, seeing the kids again was wonderful.  

And dogs, so many dogs!  Cee Cee, Chip, Beene, Beau and Lacy.  Coco is going to have a sniff-fest all over me when I get home.  😂😅

In the past month - 6 weeks?  I have visited ALL my favourite fabric shops and added to my stash, so that's bloody awesome as well.

ABOVE: This little bag of fabric was from yesterday's visit to Hidden Hollow, which is at Massey University.  

And I think that's a wrap on fabric shopping for quite a few months!

I am looking forward to the drive home, it's a good road all the way and I like driving.

If the weather is good, and it's supposed to be, I hope to stop a couple of times to gather some rocks!  lol

Me and rocks go hand in hand on trips.

ONWARD...

. 1.30 pm. Very quickly... I'm half way between Turangi and Taupo. Making good time.

I made a mistake in my post today.

Chris D is having her procedure TODAY. She should be home tonight though  and has Sandra to look after her.

I wanted to be home tonight as Stew is bloody exhausted. His knee is STILL causing him much pain. Grrrr.

So, home I am headed. I should get there just as he gets home from work.

4.15 pm and I am home safe.  5 and a half hours, with 5 short stops along the way.

ABOVE:  I got a small bag of river rocks on the Desert Road, from a stream flowing off Mt Ruapehu. 

I can't remember the number of times I've done that.  But, it's a few.  😂

ABOVE: Lake Taupo was stunning today.  I got a very little rock and a piece of driftwood here.

I am now knackered.

News on Chris D.  She's had her procedure.  It wasn't pleasant for her, and I think they would have done more if she wasn't in so much pain.  She now has to await results in a few weeks.

Sandra is staying with her this evening to make sure she's OK.

Please no guessing, it's her business.

Stew should be home any minute now, and once he's changed I will drop him off at the pub, come home and unpack.  I might, or might not get over to the kids home tonight.  It depends how I feel in an hour or so.

5.20 pm, and Stew is now at the pub.  I'm at  home relaxing.  I've actually got all my stuff unpacked and put away, and have a big load of washing on.

I will go over to the kids' house at about 6 pm.  I have a BIG soft toy for Miss Lily...

I ended up staying at the kids till it was time to pick Stew up and bring him home.  I am so tired, and COLD, all I want to do now is go to bed.  So I shall.

I'm going to sleep in tomorrow, BLISS.

LUNCH WITH THE KIDS

 

It has been just over 3 and a half months since I last saw Mike and Joyce, so it will be just awesome to catch up with them today.

We are meeting up for lunch, before Mike has work.  He does night shift work, so meeting at midday/early afternoon is best for him.

Before, or after seeing the kids, I want to pop out to the University and visit a patchwork shop out there.  It's a 'sister' shop, owned by the same lady who owns Fox's Cottage in Foxton. 

Sometimes they have different fabrics from their other shop, so it's worth having a gander.

And that's all I have on my agenda for now.

Catch ya later.

ONWARD...

It is now 2.46 pm.

I've had a very busy morning/lunch time.

First off, I went out to Hidden Hollow fabric shop and got just a little more fabric.  Then I met Mike and Joyce for a nice lunch in George Street, before we did some shopping together.

I exchanged one of the t-shit/bra thingees for a bigger one, then we went to Mitre 10, where I bought a thingee for picking up stuff off the floor.   It is staying here to help Chris get stuff off the floor.

Then I went out to the kids home and spent some time with them and their dogs.

This visit has been not only about visiting humans, but dogs as well! 

ABOVE:  The back entrance to the library, it's got a neat wall art thingee.

ABOVE: A few happy snaps.

 

ABOVE:  Mike and Joyce have Beau, their border collie, and quite often now, they look after a family members dog as well.  That dog's name?

LACY!  She's an SPCA Rescue dog, with three legs. She growled at me!  But I was reassured she would not bite me.

I'm always nervous around dogs I don't know or who growl at me.  But, she was OK.

ABOVE:  Beau and Lacy play fighting.  Beau has a huge advantage.

ABOVE:  How gorgeous is this little family?

Two things to mention about them above...

1. Joyce has been chosen, along with 7 other girls in her Palmerston North Indoor Netball team, to represent NEW ZEALAND in a Tri Nations Netball competition in South Africa in August!  She is an amazing player, and I'm not in the least surprised she's a NZ Representative.

2.  Our son Mike could have DIED last month! He was at work and did a dumb, spur of the moment thing, and nearly got crushed by a machine!  He was left with a gash in his head, and had to take a couple of days off work as he was very shaken.  I hope he's learnt his lesson, and doesn't do such a DUMB ARSE thing again.  101 safety rules should be adhered to.   I had to slap him for being such a twat.

Right, now that's out of my system... time to chill out with Chris for the rest of the day.

8.13 pm... and we are enjoying a nice evening in front of the telly, nice and warm.  It's most likely going to be another freezing night, but at least they don't get frosts too often here.  There was one in Hamilton this morning... ikkkk.

I will sign off for the day now, and catch ya tomorrow.

OFF TO THE HOSPITAL NICE AND EARLY

 

This morning Sandra is picking Chris and I up and we are heading up to the hospital.

We don't know how quickly Chris will get her 'procedure' done.  It could be any time today, or maybe it will be tomorrow.  It all depends on if they can find a bed in a ward for her.

So, fingers crossed she gets a bed, and then has her procedure.  It will be good for her not having it hanging over her head, and will hopefully answer some questions re:  current health issues.

So, that's about all I have for now!  Catch ya later.

ONWARD...

ABOVE: And here we sit, waiting... waiting... for something to happen. It's now 9.42 am. Let's see how long we wait...

11.30.  We sat in the hospital for 2.5 hours, Chris had the usual pre-admission checks, bloods taken and then... she was told to go home and come back on Friday, as the hospital is too full !

So... that's what she will do.

I will still be going home on Thursday, as Chris has our bestie Sandra to be with her.  I really only came down as I wanted to see my friends, and be here if needed to babysit the dogs.  

It sounds like Chris's procedure will be a same day thing, and she should be able to come home afterwards.

It has been so good catching up with the girls, and hearing all the goss... and there's a bit of goss! 😂😅
In an hour or so we are going to meet Sandra again for lunch at the mall.  What shall I have today I wonder?

2.29 pm.  Home from lunch, and shopping.

I had a sausage roll and some hot chips for my lunch.   After lunch we wandered over to K Mart, where I bought this:

ABOVE: There was a bin FULL of them, mostly blue ones.  I just had to get one for Lily!  They were very popular, we saw another two leaving the mall while we were there.

ABOVE: Sandra carries Cee Cee around in a little front pack thing, and OMG, does she get lots of attention.  So many people smile and want to pat her (the dog, not Sandra 😂😅).  She's so popular in the mall, it takes forever to get around cos she's stopped so often.

I got a couple of t-shirts with bra incorporated at K Mart to try.  Chris D wears them all the time, and said they are really comfy.  So, I'll give 'em a go.

Now that we are finally home, we are going to just relax.  It's been a busy sorta day already.

8 pm.  It's time to sign off for the day, a day that didn't quite go as expected.  But, these things happen.

I'm up till Coronation Street is over after 10 pm, then off to bed.

I'm getting a damn good night's sleep on the air bed!  I wasn't sure how good it would be, but it's just awesome.  I'm certainly going to get one for us as a spare bed.

One that self inflates and deflates.  

Right, catch ya tomorrow.