I was watching the tv the other night, when a segment came on about Loneliness. It is now considered a leading cause of 'illness' in our ageing population.
Seems thousands of older people consider themselves lonely, to the point where it affects their quality of life.
I can relate.
We have SIX ... (raised 8) ... kids and fourteen Grandkids. I didn't ever think we would be lonely. BUT most days, while Stew is at work, I'm LONELY.
I used to dread when Stew and I are REALLY OLD, because I felt sure we would be very lonely.
Your kids grow up and get their own lives, and move on from YOU.
Unless you are extremely lucky, and they actually think about you, and care about you enough to visit, ring, or just message now and then.
Of course, in this family, with a few of our kids 'estranged' from us, it's even worse.
And that is one of the reasons why we are moving!
To an area where there's more similar aged people like us, and a community where you can be around other people more. Where there are community facilities, opportunities to mix and mingle with others regularly and so on.
It's called 'future proofing' our lifestyle, and wellbeing.
I'm hanging out for the next phase of our lives to begin to be honest. Being in 'limbo' sucks.
Moving right along now... today I am going to the supermarket first thing, I need a couple more things for baking. Then home to sew. I am going to churn out as much as I can in the next couple of weeks.
My sewing machine told me (yes it can message me on screen), that it needed servicing and oil. So as soon as I feel like I have enough stock again, I'll send it in for servicing.
I had a play with my phone's camera yesterday... tried a few different setting. It's rather complicated! I am going to find the time, eventually, to watch some YouTube tutorials on how to get the most out of the camera's capabilities. But for now...
ABOVE: A bee that kept still just long enough for me to get a photo.
ABOVE: Our gorgeous hydrangeas. I will have to start taking cuttings off them soon, so I can put them in our new garden, once we move.
ABOVE: A blurry bumble bee. I have only seen two bumble bees this season, and both were very small and thin. I hope the bumble bee population is ok?
ABOVE: I put some string lights through this Christmas decoration. You can't really tell in this photo, but they look so lovely.
ABOVE: I used the 'NIGHT' setting for this photo, and Telephoto... it came out rather well.HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO OUR GRIFFIN, have a lovely day, Dad and I love you to bits. 💚💙💜
And that's it for now.
I am getting up and making a move on the day.
Catch ya later.
8.36 am: All the jobs are done, so I can now go out for a little while.
ABOVE: This Fruit Loaf is a resounding success. It smelled lovely whilst cooking. TICK TICK. I have tasted it, it's not super spicy, so next time I'll add a bit more spice.
It has now gone in the freezer. It will be interesting to see how it defrosts. I've never frozen home made bread before.
Has anyone else? Opinions?
10.34 am: And I'm home from a good shopping session. I skipped the supermarket, cos I was hungry, and we all know what happens when you grocery shop when hungry! So no.
ABOVE: I did my banking, then some shopping for Christmas. I couldn't skip a year of buying a Christmas Friend! Meet Rascal.
He's probably the one and only addition to the family this year.
ABOVE: And I got those three salmon pink Xmas Decorations for our bedroom. They match perfectly.
And now... I'm in the sewing room for the remainder of the day.
2.34 pm: Been sewing. And I cooked a mince and tomato stew and put it in a pie. It's now in the oven, with mini hash browns on the top. It's looking good.
Now... back to the sewing.
ABOVE: And there's the pie. It looks and smells amazing. And we shall have company this evening to help us eat it. Brylee and Dom are coming. Nice one.
Right, we've had some lovely company for dinner this evening. Not only Brylee and Dom, but Lacy as well.
Lacy raided the pantry again, and tucked into some Gherkins. She's paying the price now... 💩💩💩. lol
They have all left now, and it's time to chill out until Coronation Street is on, then bed.
Catch ya tomorrow. edit: No Coro Street tonight! I forgot it's only Monday. *sigh*