What is the last thing you want your husband to say to you?
I can think of a few things... and this is one that Stew said last night to me:
"You know, when you yelled at Brylee just now, you sounded JUST LIKE YOUR MOTHER!".... and THAT was NOT a compliment.
I was .... gobsmacked. And hurt. And almost walked out of the room. Only, I was eating dinner, so I stayed.
Man is he skating on thin ice with me right now.
What a shitty thing to say.
See... he's NOT perfect. He can be an insensitive git. And while I'm at it, he can yell just as good as me. Pffffffft.
Today: housework/blogging in the morning, then I am picking Griffin up and taking him to his Speld lesson.
That's it for now...
ONWARD.... and, what's the crappiest thing your man has said to you lately? Can ya top what Stew said?
ABOVE: HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Bex, my daughter by another mother. Hope you have a lovely day.
BELLA: I do get called 'Mum', so yep; I'm pretty sure she does see me as another Mother! Her and Steve seem hell bent on getting married and having kids... so there ya go. I'm gunna be her MIL by the look of it!
OMG... WORD VERIFICATION sucks! If you have it and wonder why you don't get many comments... is cos sometimes a reader can type out a long comment, type in the 'words' and it is WRONG, over and over again! Some of those 'words' are IMPOSSIBLE TO DECIPHER. I am over it.
PLEASE, PLEASE take word verification off and turn 'Comment Moderation' ON.
Sure you will get some span comments, but you can just delete them.
We had pizza for dinner last night. I got the most INCREDIBLY bad acid reflux at 4 in the morning! Nearly choked myself, the acid came right up into my throat. Never again am I having that much pizza. YES, I was a pig. Pizza is one of my all time downfalls.
My body is trying to tell me something.
I think I should start LISTENING.
WWANGEL: I hear you boss. I will be more careful BOSS... lol
AND I don't expect blood test results until around Monday, when I will ring and find out.
DAMMIT... Having a sugar low. Feel really ill. Off to eat something to correct it.
WHAT. A. CROCK. OF. SHIT. Just read a blog that made me see red. Some people just need to have someone say "FUCK YOU". And that is all I will say about that. Cryptic? Much.
*** LATEST PEPSI UPDATE ADDED TO ***, yep it's ongoing!
End of Day: crap is still getting in the way of me reading my favourite blogs! Maybe saturday I will have nothing bugging me and I can get back to it?
ON TRACK? I wish I could say yes, but it has been a nasty day and I'm an emotional eater.
nite nite
Yep.
ReplyDeleteI had to go out so cooked a lovely meal and put it in the oven. All he had to do was spuds.
When I rang to see how they were getting on and asked about the spuds/casserole I got "We're not eating that shit"
:) Ahhh lovely. I think I win.
Don't worry - I get the mother in law things ALL the time but I laugh - my mum is groovy so if I ended up like her I'd be okay with that!
Kate
Oh I've been told that one before. My least favorite thing is to be called a nag. That one pisses me off the most!
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday to Bex!
How sweet that you see Bex as a daughter. Do you think she sees you as another mother?
ReplyDeletemy ass told me the other day that I dont do anything just for him that EVERYTHING I do around here I would do weathr he was here or not... which is partly true but the man is clueless as to what exactly I do around here as he seems to think there is a laundry fairy and clean clothing just shows up in the closet and drawers, the house stays clean and as tidy as possible with two babies under the age of three, I cook EVERY flipping day... pay the bills, do the shopping all with just the babies He could not even tell me the last time he was in a store... and GOD help him if he ever says I sound like my MOTHER that would be grounds for divorce... oh and in the conversation above he told me I do not WORK! just cause i do not get a pay check does not mean I do not work.... GAH... love you Chris! :)
ReplyDeleteHey Chris, weightwatcher police here.... are you counting points???? What is with all the off-track eating? I know your life is STRESSFUL with all the family stuff but just because you are not paying for your meetings does not mean we are not watching you!! This is you year - little by little you will get there. Hey have you have the blood test results back yet?
ReplyDeleteI get the "you're turning into your mother" comment every now and again but its ok as my best friend says she will kill me before letting that happen!
ReplyDeleteJackie
Akl
Instead of being offended by Stew's comment - what about reflecting on how you feel/felt when your mother talked to you like that and how Brylee might have felt?
ReplyDeleteI hear you on the pizza as well - made homemade pizza the other night and had to throw half out just so I wouldn't eat and eat and eat and....you get the idea!
What makes me mad as hell is when he say's "Your in one of those moods again" when I am not, just cause I am not talkative does not mean I am in a mood. Well that is the quickest I get in one of those moods. It's like they know which button to push......
ReplyDeleteSo with you on those Word Verification things, can't for the love of me make out what they are and end up getting the shits with it all......
Enjoy the rest of your day
love Rina
Welllll... the beauty of the blogs is you can go tell that person FU and they wouldn't know it was you. Bummer for me I haven't posted anything controversial lately so hmmm... :)
ReplyDeleteOh I get you on those terrible word verification comment boxes!! With the "new" blogger set up you can't alter or take off that verification. you have to revert back to the old blogger set up to do it. Took me awhile to figure that out.
ReplyDeleteReflux. I get terrible reflux due to having a hiatus hernia. Carbs make it a thousand times worse which is another reason I have stopped things like pizza etc. I am down to the minimum dose now of losec (well the gereric one) and doing really well.
When my husband asks me if I'm in a bad mood it automatically puts me in one. Nope, wasn't before!!
ReplyDeleteBloody reflux. If you eat pizza or something else you know affects you, just try and remember to prop yourself up on pillows. Not so comfortable but better than choking on acid.
Hope you feel better soonxx
Thinking of you today and tomorrow Chris. I too am an emotional eater. I reckon try not to do it tomorrow and at least you can feel good about having a decent diet day.
ReplyDeleteIt's important to look after YOU in tough times yunno! xxx
Hi Chris :O)
ReplyDeleteSTAY STRONG!
Michelle x
Sometimes men say things then turn brains on, I hope you get some reading time soon and downtime WE NEED sunshine to get vitamin D to recharge our batteries.
ReplyDeleteBe brave this will pass. Breath and let it go. Take care.
ReplyDeleteOnce we were having a loud conversation...hahaha a fight! Over him siding with his Mom and not me..........he said WELL SHE HAS BEEN MY MOM A LOT LONGER THAN YOU HAVE BEEN MY WIFE...........that has always bugged me.........he's pretty good and doesn't hurt my feelings too often....but he has had a few good one liners he could have done with out....the turkey!!!!
ReplyDeleteThat is the one sure way to really really piss me off..compare me in any way to my Mother...
ReplyDeleteclever tho... LOL